When thinking about past birthdays, the one thing that has always stood out in my mind was the issue of never being able to celebrate it when school is in session. As a grade schooler, I was always jealous of the students who were able to celebrate their birthdays during the school year. As the years passed, and moving through middle and high school the idea of a birthday during school didn't really matter much to me. But thinking of memorable birthdays, I graduated high school on my 18th birthday, which made up for all of the bitter envy that ran through my pre-adolescent veins.
Since then, I really haven't cared too much for my birthday, which always hits my mother in the worst way possible every now and then (this also has gone for graduation parties, and the like). Granted, I love going to others birthday parties, and even throwing parties for others, as some of you know. But, having the "center of attention" be around me, doesn't excite me that much. I'd rather be doing work, or just going about my regular activities. This years birthday was quite different though, due to the fact that I had no choice but to acknowledge it in Brasil.
The day started like any other day in Brasil since I've gotten here. Got up, went to breakfast, and depending on the day either went to the university or if a weekend went back to the room to relax. While at breakfast, the waitress gave me a note that said "Hoje Aniversário", which means "Birthday Today". This was a very nice gesture. After breakfast, everyone just seemed different, and me thinking nothing of it and just going on with the day. After doing some work and watching a movie, my roommate and I decided to go to lunch. Which was delicious: Brasilian steak, mashed potatoes, rice and an amazing gravy sauce. After lunch we went back to the room to relax a bit more. After a couple hours passed another student came to our room and asked us if we wanted to go get some beverages and talk, then get some dinner. The drinks were quite refreshing, and dinner was good, as always.
While at dinner, our waitress (who we have come to get know) asked if I wanted a hug. Of course I said yes, after the apparent lack of communication due to me not knowing Portuguese very well. Then again, who wouldn't want a hug? Especially from a sweet Brasilian girl? After ordering, the waitress came back with a note saying "Happy Anniversary" (which they say instead of happy birthday). Notes, handshakes and hugs were enough for me; just the notion that people acknowledged it made me happy. After we finish our dinners, we kept on with the conversation (which are always a treat for me, intellectual conversations = happy me [hint hint ladies;)]). Towards the end of dinner, the waitresses brought out a dessert for us, which was a complete surprise to all of us at dinner (looked something like this...but much more elaborate). Needless to say it was delicious, and at this point I'm about to explode with the amount of drinks, foods and desserts in me; remember: not complaining.
After we finished dinner, we had a leisure stroll back to the hotel discussing our plans for the night: work, a movie, relaxing, talking with our families from back home. When we got back to the hotel, everyone from the program, along with the owners of the hotel were walking around the lobby area of the hotel, so we decided to stay downstairs and watch a movie that was on the television. Let's just say, The Punisher in Portuguese is quite funny. So we watched about 20 minutes of the movie, and more people from the program start coming down into the lobby, and disappearing into the kitchen area. Well, I bet you've guessed it by now, they asked for me to go back into the kitchen area and to my surprise, there was a cake and everyone from the program wishing me a happy birthday. I was quite excited, and honored that everyone took the time out of their day to wish me a happy birthday. I was very very very very grateful. Oh and the owners little boy had a lot of fun, because I let him help me blow the candles out. This made his night, and he loved the fact that we were having cake. You have to stop and love the spirit of kids every now and then, makes me think that their innocence is what drives us to be kind.
You could imagine at this point, that when I saw the cake I felt like this kid. But, the cake was so delicious, and in reality is looked more like this. This was also something that the hotel owners did not have to do for me (since they got the cake for all of us), so I was even more grateful that they are willing to open (the equivalent of) their home up to us to celebrate a birthday. Couldn't ask for better hosts, which also goes for everybody we've met so far in Brasil.
Needless to say, I was very fortunate to have such a nice group of people from the program to think about someone else. Feels just like a family, and I'm very excited to be here with this group of people. The gracious attitude of Brasilians, and the group of students from the States who are here, make me feel right at home. No words could (even though I wrote a lot here) express how much I am happy to have friends who did this for me.
Oh, and I cannot forget to thank two students from the program who got me a present! I will post a picture soon, either here or on Facebook. A very nice gesture from two very nice ladies.
Thank you everyone --
- a hero within
Since then, I really haven't cared too much for my birthday, which always hits my mother in the worst way possible every now and then (this also has gone for graduation parties, and the like). Granted, I love going to others birthday parties, and even throwing parties for others, as some of you know. But, having the "center of attention" be around me, doesn't excite me that much. I'd rather be doing work, or just going about my regular activities. This years birthday was quite different though, due to the fact that I had no choice but to acknowledge it in Brasil.
The day started like any other day in Brasil since I've gotten here. Got up, went to breakfast, and depending on the day either went to the university or if a weekend went back to the room to relax. While at breakfast, the waitress gave me a note that said "Hoje Aniversário", which means "Birthday Today". This was a very nice gesture. After breakfast, everyone just seemed different, and me thinking nothing of it and just going on with the day. After doing some work and watching a movie, my roommate and I decided to go to lunch. Which was delicious: Brasilian steak, mashed potatoes, rice and an amazing gravy sauce. After lunch we went back to the room to relax a bit more. After a couple hours passed another student came to our room and asked us if we wanted to go get some beverages and talk, then get some dinner. The drinks were quite refreshing, and dinner was good, as always.
While at dinner, our waitress (who we have come to get know) asked if I wanted a hug. Of course I said yes, after the apparent lack of communication due to me not knowing Portuguese very well. Then again, who wouldn't want a hug? Especially from a sweet Brasilian girl? After ordering, the waitress came back with a note saying "Happy Anniversary" (which they say instead of happy birthday). Notes, handshakes and hugs were enough for me; just the notion that people acknowledged it made me happy. After we finish our dinners, we kept on with the conversation (which are always a treat for me, intellectual conversations = happy me [hint hint ladies;)]). Towards the end of dinner, the waitresses brought out a dessert for us, which was a complete surprise to all of us at dinner (looked something like this...but much more elaborate). Needless to say it was delicious, and at this point I'm about to explode with the amount of drinks, foods and desserts in me; remember: not complaining.
After we finished dinner, we had a leisure stroll back to the hotel discussing our plans for the night: work, a movie, relaxing, talking with our families from back home. When we got back to the hotel, everyone from the program, along with the owners of the hotel were walking around the lobby area of the hotel, so we decided to stay downstairs and watch a movie that was on the television. Let's just say, The Punisher in Portuguese is quite funny. So we watched about 20 minutes of the movie, and more people from the program start coming down into the lobby, and disappearing into the kitchen area. Well, I bet you've guessed it by now, they asked for me to go back into the kitchen area and to my surprise, there was a cake and everyone from the program wishing me a happy birthday. I was quite excited, and honored that everyone took the time out of their day to wish me a happy birthday. I was very very very very grateful. Oh and the owners little boy had a lot of fun, because I let him help me blow the candles out. This made his night, and he loved the fact that we were having cake. You have to stop and love the spirit of kids every now and then, makes me think that their innocence is what drives us to be kind.
You could imagine at this point, that when I saw the cake I felt like this kid. But, the cake was so delicious, and in reality is looked more like this. This was also something that the hotel owners did not have to do for me (since they got the cake for all of us), so I was even more grateful that they are willing to open (the equivalent of) their home up to us to celebrate a birthday. Couldn't ask for better hosts, which also goes for everybody we've met so far in Brasil.
Needless to say, I was very fortunate to have such a nice group of people from the program to think about someone else. Feels just like a family, and I'm very excited to be here with this group of people. The gracious attitude of Brasilians, and the group of students from the States who are here, make me feel right at home. No words could (even though I wrote a lot here) express how much I am happy to have friends who did this for me.
Oh, and I cannot forget to thank two students from the program who got me a present! I will post a picture soon, either here or on Facebook. A very nice gesture from two very nice ladies.
Thank you everyone --
- a hero within
